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offthetongue is a brand that specialises in producing high quality, beautifully designed and above all EMPOWERING strap on harnesses. With a focus on style and comfort, offthetongue harnesses are the perfect choice for those seeking an overtly feminine option- crossing the line between traditional lingerie and hardcore sexual apparatus.

What makes us different? Strap on sex should be enjoyable for all parties, but traditionally your options are limited when it comes to choosing a harness. It can be difficult to find anything that makes you feel sexy- let alone something that matches your bra. Traditionally harnesses involve straps and buckles and fannying around in the heat of the moment, making sure you’ve got your leg in the right hole. And pull-on styles can be boyish and unflattering.

offthetongue choose the highest quality, most comfortable fabrics to create a wearer-friendly, lingerie-feeling harness. No more buckling up, no more sweaty leather, no more Y-fronts. Because when you feel good, you fuck good.

Furthermore, each harness is handcrafted to order! This gives us flexibility on sizing and design amendments. If you can’t find what you’re looking for, chat to us here or message us via instagram.


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